I recently sold a small painting (left) to a 77 year old woman who thought the painting was "hot". I just love that -- not that the painting was hot, which it was, but that a 77 year old woman thought it was hot and bought it! Applause to dynamic, confident older women. They give me something to grasp onto as this aging thing approaches. Plus, at dinner, I got fabulous life and love advice. #followit
Since the "Back It Up" show in Savannah went well, something had to give, right? The day after I closed the show I dashed to Florida as my mother had a stroke a week prior. I can't express what this means because unless you are actually a caretaker of someone with a stroke, you can't possibly know the weight it is, emotional, pychological and physical. I wasn't prepared for the reality. My summer plans are changed. My day to day psychology totally affected. I bought red lipstick to brighten up the frown I'm trying to turn upside down.
In a few weeks I drive out to Las Vegas to drop off 20 paintings for a 2 month solo show and that's pretty overwhelming with everything else on my plate with lots more changes on the way. I decided one of the best things I can do is make more art and to not get overwhelmed by it, go small. The point of "size matters" is absolutely relavtive to what you're looking to accomplish.
Though I'm co-teaching a class on the Old Master's Method in July that I'm ridiculously thrilled about, I am determined to find time to create a few small, sexy paintings or drawings that won't take weeks or months to complete but rather hours to days. I begin art passionately and then get too involved when I love it and then try to make it perfect and then it's a spiral of good enough vs not good enough. I don't have time for such value judgments this summer, plus I don't possess the mental capacity to begin a new long term commitment such as one of my usual larger paintings. Going small is like wrapping me up in a straight jacket and saying, "paint!"... but you know, I can do it when I put my mind to it. There are ways. Everthing is mind over matter except usually our matters are stronger than our minds.
If you want to keep up with what I create as I work on it this summer, connect with me on Instagram because that's where I'll be posting primarily and I will be back on the blog once I have a few pieces to show or something to talk about. I don't have much to say right now. Life has thrown me a curve ball and I have to manage it focused.
I struggle to make art when I am stressed or overwhelmed so I hope a few small, "don't need to be perfect" kind of pieces would be a good step to continue an artistic flow because we artists deal with artists block too. It is too easy to have life overtake the creative expressions that make artists move forward. When I was a writer, all the writer's advice was "write!". Artists need to make art. Creators create. It's just too easy to let external life circumstances effect the production value of all of us. Health and balance for me right now - zen health - is my primary need and making art helps me find that zen feeling... even though I'd rather swap out the "Z" and the "N" for "S" and an "X". :) From a zen type place though, good and sexy concepts can flow and the art makes itself. Stress hijacks the soul. Just breathe and go.